There can never be enough information conveyed about communicating in love. When one asks the question, “How’s your love life?” it should be understood that one’s love life is based mostly on communication. However, in love, communication is not limited to a verbal exchange, but also to the physical, and most importantly, the spiritual levels.
A love relationship can be defined as marriage or a bond with a significant other. How well you are communicating on all levels defines how well your love relationship is going. Either type of love connection is dependent on the quality of all levels, if it is to be a positive experience for both people.
The key level in relationships is the spiritual. If there is a spiritual bond or connection between two people that is real, then their relationship is part of their soul’s purpose in this lifetime. In such a case, it is as if their relationship has received the blessing of God.
In some love relationships, two souls might have to struggle to communicate well with one another to make up for what they were unable to do in a previous lifetime. Even though this may be true, it does not mean that communication will always be positive and wonderful. In addition, it may end up that once again they do not master communicating with one another in this lifetime, necessitating another karmic showdown in a future life!
Whatever the behind-the-scenes spiritual reason for two souls coming together in a love relationship in this lifetime, one thing is certain, and that is, improving communications is a vital part of what they share with each other. In fact, one of the central points of improving communications in love is that of sharing.
When there is difficulty in communicating in love, it is because one or both partners are unable or unwilling to share themselves with the other person. Sharing is truly a spiritual act where one abandons the personal ego, with all its deceptions, so that there may be real communication between two people. It should also be pointed out that for a person who is truly spiritual, communications in love will always be possible.
There are some interactions where higher, more evolved souls enter into love relationships for the underlying purpose of giving a lesser aware soul exposure, or to add to their spiritual growth. If this is the case, there may be a great many difficulties in communicating because of the reluctance of the less aware soul. Such a relationship may be short-term. However, it may also be long-term if there is a lengthy list of karmic issues to be worked out between them. If it is long-term, this allows more time to improve communications, or conversely, additional time to be more miserable and to form yet additional negative karma, if communications are not improved.
The most important consideration is that we come together with another in a love relationship to better communicate or express love. Even in the very best of love relationships, there is still room for improving communications. Spiritually, everyone is ultimately perfect, but perfecting a love relationship is a matter of communicating the God Presence between two people.
God knows best what can be communicated between two people to improve their love relationship. Meditation opens the door of the conscious mind to receive intuitive insight on how to communicate more effectively. The intuitive insight is not confined to verbal exchange. It may also include an exchange of energies on a physical level when two people are close or touch physically, or an exchange of ideas between souls.
When a person communicates something of love that is wonderfully positive, as in what could be described as spontaneous or inspired, it is likely that this inner communication eruption comes from an exchange of spiritual love energy at the soul level. When both people are meditators, the likelihood of such exchange is far greater. Intuitive insight gained through meditation allows you to intuitively sense what is taking place in the mind and soul of the person you care for.
With such awareness, you are better able to communicate with them positively and lovingly. The very practice of meditation promotes an inner peace, the presence of which can enhance communications by physically maintaining peace and composure. Intuitive insight gained through meditation gives an understanding of another person that can go a long way in improving communications in love.
When you meditate, you open yourself to communication from God. Such communication brings you into contact with higher energy frequencies within your mind and throughout the energy field of your body. Whatever higher energies of God’s love, peace, understanding, and harmony you experience during meditation are communicated to the person you care for.
This can take place on a psychic telepathic level, and through an energy exchange between your energy field and theirs, together with an exchange of energies in the auras surrounding the body. These energies will affect body language, facial expressions, communication delivery and voice tone. All of these are key and vital factors in improving communications in love.
It is as if you are exchanging or sharing a portion of God’s love and harmony in your communications with each other. Meditating daily elevates your own consciousness, which in turn elevates the consciousness of the relationship.
Dr. Paul Leon Masters
“Improving Communication in Love,” The Theocentric Way of Life. 2:4.
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